Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she is now recognized as the most straightforward advice columnist in Britain, offering guidance on issues related to sex, relationships, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen
After ending my long-term relationship four months ago due to various reasons, I found it difficult to make the decision, despite my partner’s pleas and subsequent attempts to reconcile.
Recently, he reached out, mentioning he is in a new relationship but expressing a desire to maintain a friendship. He even shared a photo of his younger-looking girlfriend, who is a decade his junior at 36.
Although he mistreated me during the final two years of our relationship, including dishonesty, financial irresponsibility, and manipulation, his new situation has sparked feelings of jealousy and a fleeting desire for reconciliation.
Coleen’s Response
Your emotions may be clouded by your ego, tempting you with thoughts of rekindling the relationship despite his manipulative behavior. Remember why you ended things and question if a reunion would lead to a different outcome.
It is premature to consider friendship as both of you need time to move on. There is no obligation to stay in touch, especially if there are no children involved. Prioritize your well-being and avoid engaging with him to prevent further emotional turmoil.
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